How many different flavors of ice cream do you like? How many types of food make you salivate? How many colors in the rainbow make you smile? Diversity is one of the many pleasures that the world has to offer so why should you limit your relationships to one race or ethnicity?
Me personally have never dated outside of my race, not because of any preconceived notions or taboos, just simply because no one has asked me. It could be that I haven’t been in the right places or in the right circumstances to meet someone. Maybe I don’t seem approachable; I’m not sure what keeps them at bay, but I’m ready to explore and experience the different colors of the rainbow and all that it has to offer.
Recently I joined Interracial Dating and Social Connections (IDSocialConnect) based in Arlington, VA in hopes of expanding my horizons.
I reached out to Chasta Piatakovas, the organizer of IDSocialConnect, to get some advice for myself and others who are ready and willing to diversify but not sure where to begin.
Here’s what she shared:
“I’ve always dated interracially. I’m a Black woman that doesn’t limit myself to dating one particular race. Being single isn’t easy and I think when singles say no to dating outside their race it greatly limits their chances to finding Mr. or Ms. Right.
Diversifying your dating pool simply means allowing yourself to be open to new experiences, and not allowing race to be a dating preference. Spend time where the singles hang out and remember to be flirtatious and open-minded. Men approach women (regardless of race) who display open body language (i.e., sitting legs apart, giving eye contact, playing with hair, and exposing neck and inner wrists). No matter how beautiful you are, if you look intimidating or uninterested, men—black or non-black—will not approach you.”
Please check out IDSocialConnect at www.meetup.com/idsocialconnect
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